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The Art of Happiness by His Holiness the Dalai Lama & Dr. Howard Cutler
Ideas from one great book in 5 minutes
The Art of Happiness by His Holiness the Dalai Lama & Dr. Howard Cutler
🐝 One Idea That Shifts You
Book #07 — Happiness Is a Skill
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🌱 Ideas from one great book in 5 minutes
🧭 Central Idea
The Dalai Lama believes happiness is not something you stumble upon — it's something you cultivate intentionally.
Unlike fleeting pleasure or luck, happiness is an inner discipline. It’s built through compassion, mental training, and a shift in perspective.
You don’t need to deny pain — but you can learn to hold it differently.
Happiness is not the absence of problems, but the ability to deal with them with a peaceful mind.
In other words: happiness is a skill.
🎯 The Shift
We are not born happy.
We learn how to be.
True happiness doesn’t come from external conditions.
It comes from developing:
Inner calm
Compassion toward others
Acceptance of life’s impermanence
The more we focus on kindness and connection, the more resilient and content we become.
🌀 Visual Insight: The Circle of Inner Peace
[Compassion]
↑
[Perspective] ←→ [Acceptance]
↓
[Inner Peace]
When your compass points inward, the outside can't shake you.
⚡ The Antidote
“The more you are motivated by love, the more fearless and free your actions will be.”
Instead of chasing happiness, practice happiness:
Replace judgment with curiosity
View suffering as part of the human condition
Choose compassion over comparison
Peace grows from these daily decisions.
🛠 1-Minute Practice
Pause and ask yourself:
"What’s one small act of compassion I can do today — for someone else or for myself?"
Happiness grows in acts, not outcomes.
🧠 Quote to Keep
“Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions.”
— Dalai Lama
💡 Closing Thought
Peace isn’t a destination.
It’s a way of walking the path.
📚 Other Books by the Dalai Lama
The Book of Joy (with Desmond Tutu)
The Dalai Lama’s Little Book of Inner Peace
How to Practice: The Way to a Meaningful Life
Beyond Religion
An Appeal to the World
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